Have you ever wondered why some people seem to build their businesses so easily?

And often it doesn’t stop with just one, they do it over and over.

You may think, “Well they must have been at the right place at the right time.”

Or, “They’re just one of those lucky people.”

You know what I see? I see people that just GO for it. They don’t give up and they don’t let anyone tell them that they can’t do it.

So what’s stopping you?

Is this you?

You have so many certifications but still think you need the latest and greatest training.

You’ll start putting the effort into growing your Biz AFTER you get to that next level.

The problem is, there will always be another class or course you can take.

So the question is, what is really stopping you?

There has to be some point where you just go for it, put yourself out there and build with what you have right now.

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You can do it all, just not all at the same time.

It is next to impossible to build a business while getting yet another certification.

It takes a lot of effort to do both of these and if you spread yourself to thin you won’t do good in either.

I realized a while ago that you need to focus on one thing at a time. There has to be a point where you bring that clientele to you and actually get some REAL work done.

That’s what you want right? To practice what you’ve learned and trained in.

So I’m going to let you in on a little secret.

Something is holding you back and it’s NOT that you don’t have enough credentials.

Here are some questions to find out what is slowing you down.

1. Fear of failure

Are you afraid you might fail? Then ask what’s the worst that can happen? A lot of my clients have a fear that people will look down on them or make fun of them if they fail. So they stop before they even get started.

First off it doesn’t matter what others think. It only matters how you feel about it.

What I do is start a list of what I’m afraid of. I then rate it on a scale of 1-10 and I use The Healing Codes or a Custom Healing Code to knock that sucker down.

What if others make fun of me?

So if your fear is what others would say about you, then that is what you would address in your code. This fear of what others would say or think of me. You are addressing the fear itself.

FYI, I just had a client say her years of fear in moving forward with her business is gone and that was done in one session. She is floored and roaring and ready to go! Pretty cool!

2. Relationships

Do you worry that people will think differently of you if you succeed? What if they get jealous or what if they think  YOU think you’re better then them.  You don’t want this to be a bad thing with your relationships so you hold yourself back.

I would address the worry in this. It’s close to fear but with a slightly different feel to it. You care about the people around you and don’t want those relationships to be negatively impacted and that’s’ a great thing.

What to keep in mind is that it’s all about you again. You can choose to build yourself up and still be an inspiration to others. There are many successful people out there that have great relationships and carry on in their lives in a wonderful way.

3.  Losing it all

What if you succeed and then lose it?

I had this come up with someone a while ago. His parents were very successful with their business while he was growing up and then he saw them lose it all. That impacted him so much at a young age that he had this fear of losing it before even having it.

Life has no guarantees but we continue to live our lives everyday.

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There are so many entrepreneurs who failed over and over. Then that one break through happened. They learned a lot through the failures and where grateful for them in the end.

4. Expectations From Others 

What if you’re successful and everyone expects something out of you. I was surprised the first time I heard this one. I guess it happens more than you think.  Maybe you don’t want to be in that position of telling someone no. It can be uncomfortable, right?

This is where healthy boundaries should be made. Of course you want to help others and you can, but you just need to give yourself permission to say ‘no’ at some point.

So the question here is, how do you feel when you say no? Do you feel guilt or shame?

That is exactly what I would have you address while doing a session on yourself. That guilt or shame is a biggie and will block your success. Think of it like driving a car with your foot on the gas and break at the same time. It’s tiring and confusing. Not a formula for success.

You are in the driver’s seat of Success. It’s up to you to make the right turns and navigate to your destination.

Trust me using The Healing Codes work and once you experience it you will have a tool that is effective, easy and versatile.

My sessions can use a combination of tools to help speed you along. If you need any help in moving forward on your road to success you can get started HERE.

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