Recently I had a conversation with a friend, about how hard it being you under certain circumstances.
You know what I’m talking about right? You can be yourself around some people, completely baring your soul and feel accepted unconditionally, no matter what.
Then there are the ones, whom you find yourself acting like a very different person.
You just aren’t comfortable being the real you.
The problem with that is, when you’re never fully comfortable and can’t express yourself in your own authentic way, that means you aren’t comfortable in your own skin.
That can cause some problems.
You’re the one that pays the price if you aren’t living your truth. Throwing that away, even for a few minutes, can cause stress. That accumulated stress, has a far-reaching negative impact, on your overall wellbeing.
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Stress can ruin health, relationships, and success in business!
We don’t want that!
You need to feel free to be 100% authentically YOU all the time.
I know in business that can be hard. You see others doing things that are working really well and they’re very successful.
Maybe you’ve tried mimicking them and it just never felt right. In fact, your business dropped off lower than it was before.
People can feel it when you aren’t being the true you. They can sniff it out, so much easier than you could imagine. They don’t want a watered-down version of that other person, they want the amazing gifted you, that can take them places no one else can.
Only you can offer the gifts you have in your unique way.
There’s only one you and no one else can do what you do, no matter how hard they try. In the same breath, you can’t be someone else either.
Learn to embrace who you are, the gifts you have (and there are many) and deliver them to the people you love and care about.
Be yourself… after all, you’re one amazing you!
So what about the ones that don’t want the true you?
Well… maybe it’s time to let them go. They’ll only pull you down, lower your vibration and make you feel out of sorts.
So this week, please pay attention to who you are and what you’re offering to the world. If you start feeling like you’re morphing into something you aren’t comfortable with, pay attention to how that feels.
Do you feel good about yourself? Do you feel good about the person you’re changing yourself for? If not shift into high gear and lovingly allow your true self to shine through.
You’ll feel better. You’ll attract the people in your life that are supportive and uplifting and you’ll find yourself way happier.
You’ve got this.
But remember, if you need support in finding your authentic voice and being truly ok with yourself, I’m here to help.
Sometimes tools like The Healing Codes, Emotion Code or EFT can give you that lift to embrace who you really are. I’m a certified practitioner of those and work with many other energy techniques as well. If you’re ready to get started click HERE.
Hi, a very impressive and precise article. All of us are unique in our own ways. We have to be our own selves to be real., to be unique and to reach our goals on our own. Thanks for sharing. Great read!