Change can be scary…
Change… Try saying that word out loud. Change….What does that word feel like to you? Does it pull at your stomach area, like feeling slightly ill and uneasy? Or maybe it’s more of a feeling of fear.
It makes sense since change is almost always viewed as Loss. You can read more about that in an article I posted earlier HERE.
What in your life would you like to see change?
Your business, Your health maybe your relationships? Whatever it is, some part of you may be resisting this?
Why would you resist change if it’s a good thing?
The answer is the Unknown. We really never know for sure if any move we make will be 100% safe or give the exact results we want.
Too many what ifs…
What if I move to the next level in my business and it’s too much too fast causing me to fail?
What if They don’t like what I have to offer…
What if I buy this car and it turns out to be a lemon?
Of course staying right where you are can seem safer.
So you sit back and pause and then pause some more, watching everyone else leap to the next level.
You’re Stuck!
Oh man, I hate that feeling. You know, the one where you feel like you’re being left behind, or are just plain frozen in time!
So what to do?
Work on that fear of change. No more excuses or what ifs. No more trying … Start doing! Sometimes taking the leap is all it takes.
Just jump. It’s time.
If you’re still struggling you can try some of my very effective techniques that can help you easily shift from fear, to Heck Yeah! let’s do it! It doesn’t really matter what change you’re going for. Just step into your courage and feel your way around. If you do, you’ll find it gets easier with every step.
““Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change. ~ “Jim Rohn”
And if you’re really stuck…
If you just can’t get motivated or the fear of change is too strong, then try one of The Healing Codes sessions, or other energetic correction techniques, I offer and shed your fear of moving forward.
Free yourself and finally reach the goals you’ve longed for!
You can find those sessions HERE
I may have a few changes coming up in 2015 and I was just writing a post on this change. You’ve encouraged me to keep on writing it!
xoxo
Ohhhh thats great Betsy!! So happy it helped and can’t wait to read your post!
I used to hate change with a passion…it would almost leave me paralyzed. Now, I embrace change and look at what I can learn by pushing myself to try something new, for the most part. Sure there are times when fear creeps in, but I step back and notice the fear, breathe my way forward, and believe that everything will work out according to the Universe’s plan. Thanks Melissa!
Great insight! Thanks!
Hi, change is something that we should embrace and should not fear. If we always stay on our comfort zone, and not take the risk of change then surely we’ll get stuck. I guess the healing code is the right answer to this. Thanks for sharing. Very informative !
I agree the most success happens by stepping out of your comfort zone.
Change is indeed scary for me too. Your post has help me face the reality that change is inevitable and that we should learn to embrace it and not resist it. Thanks for sharing.
Yes and think of how much easier life will be by going with the flow instead of against it.