I was thinking the other day of how much less stress we could have if we all learned to just go with the flow.
It sounds simple and I’ve seen many people do it. So why does it seem so hard at times to actually implement the go with the flow program?
I have a friend that likes to say she is a go with the flow person. The funny thing is I felt like I was always doing what she wanted to do. If there was something I wanted to do different, she would say “Come on, just go with the flow.”
Then it dawned on me.
It’s EASY to go with the flow when you are the one making it! Should it still be called going with the flow, when it’s your own flow that YOU make?
I bought this to my friend’s attention and we got a chuckle out of it. My friend looked like she had her hand caught in a cookie jar. She totally got it!
For me, I’m using The Healing Codes to not only become more flexible but to speak out better in situations like this. FYI, this friendship has been this way for over 15 years and I was finally able to recognize and to speak out on this issue.
We never stop finding new things to improve in ourselves and in our relationships.
I loved this little tidbit from your life. It is definitely easier to go with the flow if it is your flow. Healthy relationships are so much about give and takes. It is a balancing act at times. You definitely have to be able to have good boundaries and stand your ground and such. I’m glad that you were both able to laugh about it.
Btw I added you on pinterest. I just got on the website, but love it hehe. Such a cool way to group stuff.